Whazzupwitdat? I ran into good ol' Kung Fu Wu in the subway yesterday, and we had a nice
little chat, catching up and all...he was telling me how he and Judy have been together for
like 3 years now! Wow...in this world of fifty billion broken relationships, I'm really surprised
to see something like this and I'm really happy for them. Then he asked me, "so, is Mr. JCool
going out with anyone nowadays?"
"Nope."
"Whaaaat....that's not the JCool I know! I don't believe you."
And it's made me realize even though my actions still speak the same words, my intentions and the
way I see things have changed since my high school days. Whenever I did things for girls back
then, it was to get attention. Well, it worked, for the most part. But nowadays whenever I do
things, I do it out of manners, politeness, wanting to help out, or just being nice. I still do
the same actions, but I have no "ulterior motive" anymore.
Although that's what I say, unfortunately some don't view it the same way. I was really offended
by a friend's recent request for me to do her a big favor. I felt that it was a request that she,
or any other woman, would only make to her boyfriend, or someone she knows she can manipulate
because he likes her. Obviously since I'm not her boyfriend, I was really surprised to hear her
make this request of me. While it's true I maybe jumping to conclusions, after laying out the
situation to some friends they all agreed that it was unreasonable unless I actually liked her
romantically. That forced me to think, what could have possessed her to even think this way of
me? Everything I have done with her are things that I do with everybody else, and actually, I'm
not even close friends with her - I barely even talk to her much. So since I'm not even close,
the only conclusion I have is that she is either actually arrogant or she's a spoiled little
princess, and unfortunately, my outlook on her has completely changed and I've lost a lot of
respect for her.
So to address the rumor that somehow floated from Waterloo to UT Scarborough all the way to
UWO, no, the rumor is not true. I have absolutely no idea how it started, but I'm glad no names
were actually mentioned or there's gonna be hell to pay. =)
On a lighter note, I'd like to congratulate people I know who are getting baptized this Sunday:
Denise, Frank, and my star 17-year-old cousin, Ken! Congrats kiddo, welcome to the family.
Songs of the moment: Here is Gone by Goo Goo Dolls, On the Radio by Nelly Furtado, and
Blurry by Puddle of Mudd.
As usual I'm lazy, so I just dumped all the pics from both NBTC 2002
and CUTC 2002 into the Junk Yard.
I'll edit them soon enough.
Until next time, don't wait until that last minute to start studying for finals!
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